My Go-To Method For Choosing The Right Paint Color

 Learn how to choose the right paint color the first time using this method! Don't fall into the trap of making a decision based off of a tiny paint chip!

Let's face it - choosing the right paint color can be a bear. 

There are a million different paint colors out there and they have a way of looking astonishingly different depending on the light in your home. (If you haven't witnessed this yourself, trust me, it's true!). Picking the best one for your walls can be one of the most anxiety-provoking design decisions because you really only get one shot at it. The pressure is even higher if you're hiring out your paint job - you definitely don't want to have to pay twice to get the project done!

So what's the best method for getting for getting that paint color right the first time? Well, I've got a tried and true one for you that has worked beautifully for both my clients and my own home and I'm going to let you in on it today! It requires some effort from you on the front end, but it's WELL worth it and will save you a lot of headaches and regrets down the road.

The key to picking the right paint color is SAMPLES.

Please, please, please don't ever pick a paint color based off of that tiny paint chip from the paint aisle. It's way too small for you to make a good assessment on whether it's the right one for your space. DO, however, narrow your paint color search by picking up a bunch of those little chips in shades you like and bring them home to get an initial sense of whether they're contenders. The light in the home improvement center or local paint store will be different from yours, so even if you like what you're seeing in store, you need to bring them home to see what they look like there. 

(Psst! Here's an extra credit tip for you for this first part: see if you can borrow a fan deck from a designer friend, painter, or from the paint store if you want to have ALL of your initial options at your fingertips. They're really handy!)

Once you've settled on 3-6 colors you like based on the paint chips, get some samples.

Samples pots are small containers you can have mixed up in any color. They're the perfect "try before you buy" size. Every paint store or home improvement center has these available. If you want to make it easy on yourself, stick with one paint brand so you can have all of your sample colors mixed at the same time.

(On a side note, did you know that Home Depot will ship you 8 oz. paint samples for free!?* Save yourself a trip to the store!) 

If you do want to try colors from multiple paint brands, but don't want to run all over town collecting samples, you can have them color matched in a different brand's paint. What I mean by this is that you can have a Benjamin Moore color matched in a Behr paint for example - you just need to bring the paint's name and number with you to the store. They all have libraries of other paint brands stored in their systems for this very purpose. 

Keep in mind though that the color may not be a perfect match to what you see on the paint chip since every brand's formulations are proprietary. They're often really great matches, but there are times when it doesn't work out exactly how you expect. The key to pulling off this color matching strategy successfully if you like the sample you got is to go back to the same paint store and use the same brand/base when you're ready to get your gallons. Remember that you're making your final decision based on the color you see on your walls and not the name of the color or the paint chip! So go back and have that Benjamin Moore color made from a Behr base if that's how you got your sample originally. If you decide you would rather have Benjamin Moore paint through and through though, have your sample made with Benjamin Moore base from the start. 

 Wall Color: Winter White by Benjamin Moore. Learn how to choose the perfect paint color for your walls in this post! // White modern bedroom, white walls

Wall color: Winter White by Benjamin Moore from my Modern Eclectic Master Bedroom 

With your samples in hand, it's time to try them on your walls!

You have a couple of choices for this step in the process: 

  • Paint the sample directly on your wall
  • Paint the sample onto a poster board and tape it up on the wall

In either scenario, you'll want to paint the surface with two nice coats just like you would if you were painting the wall for real to give you the best idea of how that shade will look. 

Personally, I prefer the second method of painting a poster board because it gives you the option of being able to move the color around to different parts of the room to observe the colors at different times of day in several areas. This also avoids that crazy-looking scenario of having paint samples all over your walls! If you end up delaying the paint job for some reason, you can simply pull the poster boards down - no harm, no foul. :) 

When we bought our house and I was choosing paint colors, I used the poster board method and boy did it work well. I had three colors picked out from the paint chips: Classic Gray, Gray Owl, and Winter White (all Benjamin Moore). I had samples mixed and painted them all onto poster boards, then carried them all over our house to see what they looked like. As it turned out, Classic Gray had a green undertone in our house, Gray Owl was too dark and too warm, and Winter White was just right. It was the perfect light gray for our home and I would never have understood the (unwanted) nuances in the others had I not tried the samples. My instinct would have been to go with Classic Gray and I would have been so disappointed!

 Wall Color: Galapagos Turquoise by Benjamin Moore in this modern dining room. Come learn how to choose the right paint color for your walls in this blog post! I teach you my go-to to method!

Wall color: Galapagos Teal by Benjamin Moore from my Queen Village Cozy Modern Dining Room project

Now I've got one more curveball to throw at you regarding samples.

I recently came across a company called Samplize that hand paints large peel-and-stick swatches in any color in the Sherwin Williams or Benjamin Moore paint collections. Going this route gets rid of several troublesome issues with the sample process: it cuts down on time wasted going to the store and putting up the samples, it eliminates the problem of what to do with leftover paint, and it helps you get a really accurate assessment without the mess. I haven't personally tried them so I can't speak from personal experience, but it sounds pretty amazing!

Here's a video of how it works if you want to check it out:

Once you've had a chance to live with and observe the various samples for a few days, you'll be ready to make a final decision. If you've done your homework, you'll feel confident rather than anxious to get that paint up on your walls! 

Cheers to getting your paint color right the first time, my friends!


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Did You Know? You Can Buy Live Plants On Amazon (Plus Some Houseplant Tips)

 A spider plant hanging in my home office with modern white furniture, an overdyed blue rug, and abstract art. Read more about decorating with houseplants and where to buy them online in this post!

(Above: A spider plant hanging in my home office in a beautiful Convivial Production planter.)

I'm a huge fan of having plants in your home. They add instant life to a space, are perfect pieces of decor for just about any spot, and can even purify your air (bonus!). Over the past year or so, I've slowly been adding more houseplants into different areas of our home - I think I might be turning into a little bit of a crazy plant lady, but I just love them. Our neighborhood hardware store has a great selection and I have to try really hard to resist bringing another one home every time I walk by - it's trouble!

So when I recently heard that Amazon had a new houseplant "shop,"* I had to check it out. The idea of having live plants shipped right to my door was definitely enticing (not that I need any more...) and I was curious to see what they had listed. Since Amazon has an enormous inventory that can be a bear to sift through, I liked the idea of browsing a curated collection rather than having to look through a million results.  

I took a spin through the shop and what I found was a pretty wide selection of sizes, shapes, and species. They had three pages of plants that included everything from fiddle leaf figs to succulents to bonsai trees. The prices seem reasonable and the vast majority fall into the Prime category, so if you have a membership, they'll ship to you fast and free, which is pretty awesome! The one thing I found to be a little bit odd was that there were some that didn't have good reviews or had no reviews - wouldn't you think that if you're putting together a collection like this that you'd want to choose well-vetted plants? Maybe I'm wrong, but that thought did cross my mind, and it's something to note if you do some plant shopping there.

Of the houseplants in the shop, here are the ones that caught my eye:

 Did you know you can buy indoor plants online? Amazon has a new houseplant shop and these are some of my favorites. Many of these are easy to care for (like the pothos and snake plant!) and will add so much life to the decor in your home!

rubber tree | snake plant | fiddle leaf fig | yucca cane plant | elephant ear | chinese evergreen | jade plant | pothos

As I was browsing, I figured out that sometimes the listing you see on the shop's home page actually has a variety of plants listed. For example, when I clicked on a listing for a Chinese evergreen, I found four different varieties in different colors and leaf patterns. So if you like a plant generally, but want a different color or variety, click through! You may find more options.

It can take a little bit of trial and error to see what plants work well in your home, but with a little bit of research to see if a plant's ideal growing conditions match the amount of care and light you can provide, you'll find the right ones in no time. It's true that some plants are more high maintenance than others, and sometimes you just have plain ole bad luck, but I'm a firm believer that anyone can keep a plant alive if it's the right one! I know it can be tempting to choose based on pure aesthetic, but trust me, if your home isn't the right setting for it, you'll convince yourself you have a black thumb when that's not really the case. Choose wisely! 

We live in a row house that has limited natural light, so most of my plants are ones that can handle low light conditions. We have a couple of windows that provide nice, bright light, so I've been able to bring in a few of plants that require a little more sunlight to thrive.

 Did you know? You can buy live house plants on Amazon! Come see what caught my eye, what grows well in my house with low light, and get more tips on bringing out your inner green thumb.

(Above: My little fiddle leaf fig (note that it normally sits in a window with bright light!) played the role of decor in my One Room Challenge reveal.) 

Here are the plants that have survived and and done well in my house with little maintenance:

  • Pothos (I have one that gets very little light and still does great!)
  • ZZ plant (it does well sitting in a window that gets afternoon sun)
  • Prayer plant/red maranta (I have it hanging in a corner near a window in my office that gets decent light, but no direct sun)
  • Jade plant (this one seems to do ok, but honestly could probably use more light throughout the day)
  • Fiddle leaf fig (lives in a window that gets indirect light all day and some bright afternoon sun)

Just as importantly, here are the plants that have not done well in my house:

  • Maidenhair fern (I've decided they are just too high maintenance for me!)
  • Most succulents (my house just isn't bright enough for them to grow well)

Thankfully, I've found some success along the way, and figured out that I do well with plants that need water about once a week or less (and that "tell me" when they need water based on the way their leaves droop!) and can grow in lower light conditions. I hope this can help some of you out there embrace your inner green thumb - I know you have one!

 What house plants should YOU have in your home? I've got some tips for you and also share a new place you can purchase plants online! This modern living room has a pothos on top of a bookshelf - it does well in low light conditions.

(Above: That's a pothos on top of my bookshelf - I've had it for a couple of years and it does well here with little natural light!)


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Choosing the Right Side Table and Lamp Combo (Plus Six Sets For You To Try!)

 How do you choose the right side table and table lamp combination? Head to this post! I've got six no-fail combinations for you to try in your home and a lot of tips on how to choose well! // Emily Henderson's modern traditional living room with a blue sofa and a trunk as a side table.

via Emily Henderson

Here at Mix & Match, one of my big goals is to help y'all feel confident that you're making good decisions when it comes to decorating your homes. I want this blog to be a source of easy-to-digest, actionable design tips, and be a resource for you as you dive into your next project! There are so many things to think about, but I'm here to help with posts like these that cover some of the most common decorating questions I get or design mistakes I see. They'll (hopefully!) answer some questions you have and enable you to move forward. Woohoo!

Today, I want to dive into a topic that everybody needs to think about at some point when they're decorating, and that's how to choose the right side table and lamp combo. This is a particularly pertinent topic for living rooms and dining rooms. Picking these two small pieces is pretty important both function-wise and style-wise; after all, tables are kind of critical spots for drinks, books, and other items, and you need table lamps to light up a room and add ambiance. 

At first glance, you might think how hard can it be to pick the right combo? Just grab a table and plop a lamp on it, and you're set! But if you've ever done that and thought, huh, this doesn't really look right, that's because there are three things you need to consider to nail this little, but important, aspect of decorating a room. So let's talk about those! 

 How do you choose the right side table and table lamp combination? Head to this post! I've got six no-fail combinations for you to try in your home and a lot of tips on how to choose well! // A modern farmhouse eclectic guest bedroom in progress with blue-green floral wallpaper and mid-century nightstands.

image from my in-progress One Room Challenge guest room

1. Think about heights.

Height is an absolutely crucial part of this, and it's not just about the height of your individual table or lamp, it's about the heights of them relative to each other and the piece next to them. Whether that's a sofa, chair, or bed, in order for it to look good all together, you have to factor in all three of those heights.

It's actually easiest to start with the height of the piece of furniture your table and lamp will sit next to, and then decide what the size of your lamp and table should be.

A good rule of thumb is to choose a table height that's about the same height as the item next to it - whether it's the arm of your sofa or chair, or the top of your mattress (plus or minus a few inches). So if your sofa arm is 24" high, choose an accent table that's about that height - nobody wants to have to reach way down or way up to use the table! There are exceptions to this: for example, if your sofa arms are super high, it's ok for your table to be a good bit shorter, or if you choose a tall table, a shorter lamp may be fine. If you have a piece like that in your home, sometimes you just have to play around and see what looks right.

Your table height will then dictate the height of your table lamp. In general, you'll want to choose one that's approximately the same height as, or slightly taller than, the table, which will keep them looking proportional to one another. You'll also want to be sure that bottom half of the shade is around eye level when you're sitting on your bed or sofa for the best lighting situation (no blinding bulbs in your eyes, please!).

 How do you choose the right side table and table lamp combination? Head to this post! I've got six no-fail combinations for you to try in your home and a lot of tips on how to choose well! // A modern eclectic living room from Studio McGee

via Studio McGee

2. Consider scale. 

One of my pet peeves is seeing either a dinky-looking lamp on a large end table or the opposite where a huge lamp takes up the entire table top. This concept of scale takes into account the height and width of your lamp and table; in other words, the "visual weight" of your lamp relative to the table it's sitting on. If you have a chunky table, choose a heftier lamp, and if you have a petite or visually light table, choose visually lighter lamp. Another important rule of thumb here? Make sure your lamp shade is narrower than the table top.

If you're shopping for these two pieces independently, always measure them (or take note of the measurements in the listing) to make sure they'll work well together. Don't just trust your eyeballs, especially when you're shopping online. You can't always tell how large or small they are - photos can lie!

 How do you choose the right side table and table lamp combination? Head to this post! I've got six no-fail combinations for you to try in your home and a lot of tips on how to choose well! // A bright and white bedroom with modern nightstands and a faux marble table lamp

via Z Design At Home

3. Balance Style and Function.

As with all decorating decisions in our homes, it's important to balance form and function. When it comes to choosing the right side table/lamp combo, striking that balance will help you make the best decision that works with your style and serves your needs well.

The lamp and table style you go with is up to you of course, but be sure that they feel cohesive with the rest of your room. Also, think through if you want them to make a big statement or play a supporting role to the rest of the room's design. For example, a stand-out lamp can be awesome and eye-catching, but if your room already has other "stars," you might want to consider something simpler and more subtle.

When it comes to the functional side of choosing these two pieces, think about what you need them to do in your space. Do you want your side table to have drawers for storing miscellaneous items or will a simple table work? Does your table lamp need to be a major light source for your room or is it more for reading and occasional additional lighting? All of these questions are important to answer before you fall in love with a piece that won't satisfy the functional needs of your space!

 How do you choose the right side table and table lamp combination? Head to this post! I've got six no-fail combinations for you to try in your home and a lot of tips on how to choose well! // A mid-century modern nightstand pairs nicely with a funky brass lamp

via Apartment Therapy (photo: Jessica Isaac)

Let's look at some great side table and lamp combos!

Now that you've had your primer in how to choose the right side table and lamp, I wanted to share some real life examples of combos that I think work particularly well. The possibilities are truly endless, but these six are a good starting point.

They check the boxes on size, scale, and proportion, and I tried to choose combos that work well relative to typical furniture heights. If any of these speaks to you in particular, be sure to remember to take a look at the measurements to make sure they'll work in your space!

 How do you go about choosing the right side table and lamp combination? Head o over to this blog post! I'll teach you how, plus you can find the sources for these six no-fail combos.

COMBO 1: aqua table lamp* + mid-century wood side table

COMBO 2: hourglass table lamp + gold and glass end table

COMBO 3: cement table lamp + modern round end table

COMBO 4: black and white table lamp + black metal side table

COMBO 5: wood and brass table lamp + white side table with drawers

COMBO 6: textured blue table lamp + black and natural wood rustic end table

Finally, I do want to add one thought about decorating in general - there's rarely ever a true right and wrong, but following some guidelines can certainly be helpful to pull it all together. Always strive to make your home a reflection of your personality, interests, and desires, and keep these design tips in mind to make it look its best! 

Happy decorating, friends!


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